How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Fall In Love Again – After He Broke Up With You
You saw it happen to your girlfriends, but you never thought it would happen to you. Your relationship was secure and filled with love. But it happened with your man saying he needed some time and space and he is gone. You are devastated and you feel like a fool. All of the time that breakups were happening to others, you were smug and sure it could never happen to you. Now all you can think of is how to make your ex boyfriend fall in love again after he broke up with you.
The good news is that he probably still loves you. Love does not die easily and to get him back it might just need a little spark to reignite his love to a full flame again. It will be up to you to provide that spark. To do that, you will have to be strong and keep your emotions under control. The surest way to douse the embers of his love for good would be to harass him with phone calls in the middle of the night screaming that you cannot live without him. Sending email and text messages by the ton will only force him to see you as a weak and needy person.
To make your ex boyfriend fall in love again, you need to put your best foot forward and show him you can live without him. When something is readily available, you take it for granted, but take it away and suddenly you feel a need for it and do your best to get it back. This is the technique to use that will get your ex back. If you disappear and are no longer available, he will want you again. This could have been the reason for the breakup. He began taking you for granted and the relationship became boring. By showing him you do not need him, you will become a challenge to him and he will do everything in his power to get you back.
Give him several weeks to see that you are not going to beg him to love you again and he will come looking for you. His first move might be to send an email to test the water. Do not answer it. He will next try calling you. Let him get your recorder. You cannot let this go on forever if you want to get your ex back, but let him call and get your recorder for two or three days and then return his call. When he answers, you must be on your guard not to break up and start crying at the sound of his voice. This might take all of your willpower, but you have to be cheerful and tell him you have been so busy this is the first opportunity you had to return his call.
He will probably say that the two of you need to talk. If you still love him and want your ex back, be agreeable, but you set the time and place. This puts you in control and never make yourself too available again.